Why Work With Love Doctor Yangki Akiteng?

There are hundreds, if not thousands of coaches out there, so why me?

For starters, I’m so very ordinary. I’m not a “guru” or “influencer”, I’m a post-breakup coach with years of experience, a different approach to getting back with an ex, and a sincere desire to be of help.

Although my academic training is in Psychology, much of my knowledge of relationships comes from over 20 years of directly working with people like yourself.

Just like many of my clients, I struggled with relationships, and there were times when I really needed someone who would listen to what I was going through with empathy and compassion instead of judgement. Someone who didn’t tell me nothing is my fault or everything is my fault. Someone I felt genuinely had my back, wanted what was best for me and didn’t just tell me what I wanted to hear.

I didn’t always get that, and so I promised myself that I would be that person for others.

That promise has shaped the way I coach today.

When we work together, I try as best as I can to understand your situation, help you make sense of what’s happened, and guide you towards the best possible chance of reconnecting with your ex in a healthy way.

I’m honest when something is likely to help, and I’m equally honest when something is likely to make things harder. My job isn’t to sell false hope or take hope away. It’s to help you make informed decisions based on your unique situation.

In my experience, many exes don’t get back together because an ex has lost feelings or no longer wants a relationship. They don’t get back together because the other person can’t see a way forward or how the relationship could work differently this time. This is where I come in — and what I’m good at.

I help create a different dynamic by actively creating the conditions that make getting back together feel like the right decision for BOTH people.

The traditional “get your ex back” approaches often focus on giving space, creating distance, making your ex miss you, chase you and trying to influence their feelings or behaviour. That puts you in the same dynamic of doing “all the work”, and creates the same unhealthy dynamic.

I approach getting back your ex differently.

I focus on changing the current dynamics to one your ex can see how the relationship can work better, and want to give it another chance. You’re not just trying to get an ex back, you are also making sure the connection meets your needs, too. I help you make sure it does, through timing, tone, delivery and how you show up, instead of relying on generic “give them space” every time; regardless of what’s actually happening in the moment or in your dynamic.

Instead of trying to make your ex miss you or chase you or believe that things will be different; your ex experiences the difference for themselves in every interaction.

This is the one stark difference with working with me.

I do not advice manipulation or mind game playing to get an ex back. I use attachment theory as it was originally intended: to understand attachment dynamics and create safety and stability. When your ex comes back, it’s because they genuinely believe the dynamic is safer and more stable.

If this sounds like the kind of approach you are looking for in a coach, then I would love to help you develop the best strategy, provide personalised guidance, and support you through the reconnection process.

I also offer daily coaching support, where you can email me throughout the day if you have an urgent question, need help navigating a situation, want feedback before taking your next step, or simply want to share an update on how things are progressing.

Having that ongoing support means you don’t have to figure everything out alone—you have someone who understands your situation and can help you make secure, thoughtful decisions as the process unfolds.

If you’re ready, the next step is to choose the coaching package that best suits your needs, goals, and budget. Set up your appointment using the email address provided with your receipt. Reply to email to confirm appointment day/time. I will call you.

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If you have any questions about our coaching packages, text or WhatsApp: +1416 606 6989