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What you are looking for is not simply that they are reaching out more, it is that they are responding...
It's like you're not supposed to let your ex see how much you still care, and showing feelings somehow makes you seem...
You may be watching for more affection, more communication, more reassurance, or clearer signs that they still care...
As a secure attachment-based coach, I don’t like that they do, but the reality is that sometimes they work, at least temporarily.
The goal is to make sure that if they come back into your life, you're choosing them, rather than simply accepting...
Their love may be real, but it cannot translate into consistent connection or stability because of their limited capacity...
It's easy to interpret their resistance as they’re never going to change their mind. In my experience, that’s not always...
It doesn’t matter if you give them space or don’t chase them, they’re not going to be ready to come back on their own.
The goal is not to stop reaching out or make your avoidant ex do all the work, it's to stop carrying the connection ..
They often become more cautious because they're trying to understand why exactly you want them back if all you see is...
