My approach to attracting back your ex is always being open and honest, and respecting your ex enough to let them make their own decisions.
You will feel safer and more secure when you get back together knowing that your ex wanted to come back on their own, and that you did not have to manipulate or trick them to get back together.
Instead of asking “How do I make a fearful avoidant stop pulling away?”, ask a different question: “How do I help my fearful avoidant ex become securely attached?” Then watch this video and get started right away.
It’s doable. My clients have done it and you can do it too. It starts with taking that first text, phone call or face-to-face conversation.