There is no magic number for how many times you should try to get back your ex or keep reaching out when your ex pulls back.
For an ex who is not responsive, try reaching out at least 3 – 4 times to make sure they don’t want any contact and it’s really over.
For an ex who is showing some or much interest, keep trying for as long as you can do it. If you can see some progress, even small progress, it’s not over!
Persistence is key to attracting back an ex. But not just any “persistence”. See this quick tip.